It’s 2010!

January 1st, 2010

There were many things I wanted for 2009 that didn’t come to fruition, not least of all that I wanted to update my website and post on my blog more frequently. This didn’t happen so I can only say that I will try my best to update more often this year instead. Until I feel the need to write something though, you can always see my latest ramblings in bite-size chunks on the right side of my blog courtesy of my Twitter feed.

Because it’s a New Year I’ve made a few changes. Firstly, I’ve taken a few things off my website as I’ve just not been happy with how they turned out. I’ll work on them and they may make a comeback if I’m pleased with the results. Secondly, and more importantly, Flopsy now has a proper memorial website that you can view at flopsy.critters.com. I still need to add pictures and tweak pages but I intend to keep updating it as Anniversaries come along so expect updates in the future.

Finally I want to wish everyone a Happy New Year. I didn’t have a great 2009 so I hope that my 2010 is better (and the same to you also!). Thanks for reading.

Brother in hospital

January 17th, 2009

My head is all over the place recently so my facts might not be straight but I’ll explain things the best I can. In short, my brother is in a critical yet stable condition in hospital – there has been little change since he went in on Saturday which is not long from being a week ago. The long version of the situation and my thoughts are after the cut, for those that wish to know it.

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Blog Updates

January 1st, 2009

With a New Years comes a few small changes to my blog. Here are the changes and why they were changed.

A New Name
Previously this blog was called “The Suzi & Flopsy Blog!” I have no intention of not writing about my dearly departed friend, but I felt now was as good a time as any to change the name and have him mentioned in the tagline. This was probably the most difficult change (emotionally) for me to do.

Paypal Donate removed
Perhaps I’ll add it back in the future but it was listed as “Flopsy’s Food Fund” and I used to put donations towards buying him things mostly, and some towards the upkeep of the website. It’ll return if I can come up with a better description, but it might be better elsewhere anyway.

No more Friends Links
Along the side I used to have links to 4 friends blogs. The thing is, I have more than 4 friends, but I wasn’t going to link to private blogs or social networking pages like Facebook… Unless a lot more friends start personal blogs this might stay on the cutting room floor.

Twitter Updates
Last month I signed up for Twitter. Sometimes I have something to say, but it’s not much or important enough for a full blog post on here – Twitter is ideal for that. And yet, I still want anyone viewing this blog to know I’m still alive… Hence I have added my latest Twitterings to the side of the page.

Considering I haven’t altered my blog much at all in the past few months these added up to quite a few changes that I thought were worth writing about. Future changes might be added to the comments.

Happy New Year!

January 1st, 2009

Figured out your New Year’s Resolutions yet? I have a few of my own, some short term and some long term. I’m probably missing a few but here they are!

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2008 in Review

December 31st, 2008

Today is the last day of 2008. Tomorrow it’s gone, finished, over with! So long 2008. You’ve outstayed your welcome.

Read on for what happened in my 2008.

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Flopsy’s updated website

November 4th, 2008

For the last week (or two, I don’t remember anymore) I’ve been ill and should be resting as much as possible… but Flopsy’s untimely death has altered that. Yesterday I needed to write the posts I did, and today I also needed to write. I needed to write my goodbye to Flopsy. Every so often I may find the urge to update it, but that’s all for now.

I also want to say something I forgot to mention before. I still have lots of pictures of Flopsy that I never uploaded here. I wanted to show them in order of when they were taken but some I’m unable to upload at the moment so none of them have been yet. The order is less important to me now. I need to grieve and come to terms with this loss, but the pictures will go up in the future.

Thanks for reading.

Letter From Your Pet in Heaven

November 3rd, 2008

I am not particularly religious, but if there is a God then I hope this poem to be true. I hope I see you again one day, Flopsy. One day…

Letter From Your Pet in Heaven

To my dearest family,
some things I’d like to say.
But first of all, to let you know,
that I arrived okay.

I’m writing this from the Bridge.
Here I dwell with God above.
Here there’s no more tears of sadness.
Here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy
just because I’m out of sight.
Remember that I am with you
every morning, noon and night.

That day I had to leave you
when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me,
and He said, “I welcome you.

It’s good to have you back again;
you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family,
They’ll be here later on.”

God gave me a list of things,
that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list,
was to watch and care for you.

And when you lie in bed at night,
the day’s chores put to flight,
God and I are closest to you . . .
in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth,
and all those loving years,
because you are only human,
they are bound to bring you tears.

But do not be afraid to cry:
it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers,
unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you
all that God has planned.
If I were to tell you,
you wouldn’t understand.

But one thing is for certain,
though my life on earth is o’er.
I’m closer to you now,
than I ever was before.

There are rocky roads ahead of you
and many hills to climb;
But together we can do it
by taking one day at a time.

It was always my philosophy
and I’d like it for you too;
That as you give unto the world,
the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody
who’s in sorrow and pain;
Then you can say to God at night . . .
“My day was not in vain.”

And now I am contented . . .
that my life was worthwhile.
Knowing as I passed along
I made somebody smile.

God says: “If you meet somebody
who is sad and feeling low;
Just lend a hand to pick him up,
as on your way you go.

When you’re walking down the street
with me on your mind;
I’m walking in your footsteps
only half a step behind.”

“And when it’s time for you to go . . .
from that body to be free.
Remember you’re not going . . .
you’re coming here to me.”

[Author Unknown]

RainbowsBridge.com

November 3rd, 2008

I feel very lost now that my friend is gone, but I take small comfort in a website I once found called Rainbows Bridge. Here is a poem describing Rainbow Bridge.

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together…

Sleep well, Flopsy

November 3rd, 2008

It is with a great sadness that I must inform everyone that Flopsy has passed away. At just before 2:30am, Monday 3rd November 2008, my brave little boy fell asleep for the very last time right next to me while I stroked him and tried to comfort him in his final hours.

He has been unwell in the past but has always pulled through, unfortunately I knew it wouldn’t be the same this time. For several hours he stayed in my arms while I groomed him as I was certain this would be my last chance to do so. I’m sad to say that I was right about that.

I am going to miss you so much, Flopsy. I can’t even begin to describe how heartbroken I am…

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Time to update!

May 9th, 2008

It’s been quite a while since my last update, so I’m going to try and cover a few topics in one go. Here’s the short summary: me and Flopsy are doing okay, we’ve had our ups and downs, but mostly we’re doing fine.

The longer version has some kinda personal stuff in it so if you don’t want to know then you can safely stop reading now.

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